Neil, I was raised in the Evangelical Assembly of God. I married and had three children. There was no reconciling my gay nature with my religion, however looking back, after leaving my marriage, we all became happier. Divorce ALWAYS causes some childhood trauma, and I am very sorry to put my children through that, but I have now had 30 years with my husband, whom I truly love, and we have had a very good life together. Just another look at your story, and how mine played out as a married but gay man.